For the Fathers
I haven't written a post specific to Father's Day in several years now. Not because I don't appreciate my husband or my dad (or my grandpas) but because I'm don't really have much to add to what I've already written, and I don't want to repeat myself over and over. But just in case you want to know what the fathers in my life mean to me, here are my previous posts:
Honestly, I cannot picture my life without my dad or Terence. Neither one is perfect, mind you, but both have stepped up to the job and taken responsibility to be a father-- to provide for and protect his family. Both have made the choice to BE THERE for their kids, to the best of their ability, which in today's world seems to be getting scarcer.
I also want to give a shout-out to Terence's dad Nelson, who was not there when Terence was growing up but is now a part of our lives. Guys, it is never too late to build a relationship with your kids. Even if circumstances beyond your control or your own immaturity or mistakes or whatever prevented you from being there when they were growing up. Take those steps, initiate a relationship, and see where it goes. It may just end up being a great blessing in your life, and the lives of your kids and/or grandchildren.
We need fathers who love their kids and make an effort, who try their best in a very difficult role. Our kids need strong, kind, dependable men in their lives. Thank you to all those dad and grandpas and surrogate dads who are willing to be there. It takes courage and hard work and is often unappreciated, but our lives are so much better off because of your love and sacrifice. Thank you!!!!
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